Key Highlights
- Olly Murs opened up about his estranged relationship with his twin brother Ben during a recent podcast appearance.
- The incident that strained their relationship occurred in 2009 when Olly chose to compete on The X Factor instead of attending his brother’s wedding.
- Ollie discussed how his career choices have impacted family dynamics and relationships, particularly during the “honeymoon period” of his marriage with Amelia Tank.
- The singer reflected on the special bond he shared with his twin brother, despite the lack of communication over the years.
Olly Murs’ Heartfelt Reflections on Estranged Twin Brother Ben
In a candid conversation on The Therapy Crouch podcast, singer Olly Murs delved into the complexities of his relationship with his twin brother Ben. This disclosure came as part of an ongoing dialogue about family dynamics and personal growth.
Background
The X Factor and Personal Choices
The discussion was triggered when host Abbey Clancy and Peter Crouch brought up the concept of “Irish twins,” referring to siblings born less than a year apart. Olly Murs, who recently celebrated his second child with wife Amelia Tank, shared that Ben was his twin brother but highlighted their current estrangement.
Murs opened by saying, “Well, I’m a twin, I’m a twin. Yeah, no one ever…
I mean, yeah, me and my brother. Yeah, we haven’t spoken for a long time, but yeah, we were twins growing up, yeah,” before adding humorously, “I say, ‘We were twins’; we’re still twins.”
Strain in Family Ties: The 2009 Incident
The tension between the brothers dates back to a significant event in 2009 when Olly chose to participate in The X Factor instead of attending his brother’s wedding, where Ben was supposed to serve as best man. This decision reportedly led to public expressions of hurt from Ben, who felt betrayed by Olly’s apparent prioritization of his career over family ties.
Murs recalled the incident with a mix of regret and humor: “I was on X Factor and I couldn’t make his wedding because I was on the show,” he stated during the podcast. This admission highlights the conflicting pressures between personal and professional obligations that many entertainers face.
Reflections on Family Life
Shifting gears, Olly Murs reflected on his current family life with Amelia Tank. He mentioned how their relationship has evolved from the early “honeymoon period” to a stage where they continue to navigate challenges and share moments of joy. The singer noted that the tone of his music has also changed over time: “I wrote an album three years ago, and it was the Marry Me album.
It was when we had no children, so it was like a honeymoon period. So it was like: ‘Oh, I love you. You’re amazing.
You’re incredible.’ This album, I was able to be a little bit more cheeky with it. So when people hear it, the honeymoon period’s definitely gone, but in a fun way,” he said.
Ollie also expressed his appreciation for his role as a father and husband, acknowledging how these responsibilities have shaped his personal journey: “Fans can catch Olly sharing his culinary skills on Saturday Kitchen Live, adding another layer to his multifaceted career while navigating the complexities of family and artistry,” he concluded.
Olly Murs’ reflections provide a poignant insight into the challenges faced by celebrities as they balance their public personas with personal relationships. His openness about the estrangement with his twin brother highlights the delicate nature of these bonds in the spotlight.
